So you can feel pretty good that I have at least some kind of handle on it, and that my intentions are as pure as can be. And though I’ve only been married just over 4 years and I don’t yet have decades of marriage experience under my belt, I can tell you this: I’m in it for life. I also have what I would consider to be a happy marriage that has love in abundance. I am obsessed with love and have dedicated a lot of my life to learning about it and discovering it as best I can. But, what I do have is a sincere interest in studying and learning about love. I’m a human being stumbling my messy way through this world just like you are. Let me begin by saying I don’t claim to have the answers. It’s up there with what is the meaning of life and what are we here for? This is, without a doubt, a huge, massive, complicated, profound question. This post is all about answering the question: what is real love. Okay, obligatory 90s Haddaway reference out of the way, let’s get serious. What is love? ( Baby don’t hurt me, don’t hurt me, no more)

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